Now here comes a nice article my cute lil' friend cum sister wrote a couple of days back and I jus read it.. :) Sharing it for the readers of my blog :)
Blessed are the ones who have a nice group of friends, also to put as: ‘best friends’. Without being offensive to the set of people who religiously believe in the concept of ‘best friends’ and all the jazz, I would personally consider it out of my apprehension. Now this could be because of experiences I had. I believe that people grow experience by experience rather than growing day by day. Every experience or event teaches us lessons for lifetime, be it good or not good.
In this self centered and super competitive setting, the only person you can rely on is YOURSELF. Today, I believe that I can make a difference. I have faith that everything that happens or has happened, made me who I am today. With optimism also comes a valuable amount of genuine belief and closure towards god. God designs our lives. He strategically puts people in our lives for specific reasons: Some people to learn lessons from, others to help you along your way and few others to make you realize how strong you really are. If you can advocate and accept your own self as your best companion, the big bad world’s judgments and unpleasant opinions will simply go un-noticed.
Why worry about what someone has to say about you? While they are busy ‘trying’ to destroy your inner strength, you are being exactly what they could just wish to be.When somebody says you have changed, take it not as an instance of offence instead as an indication that you have stopped living your life their way and on their terms.
Everyone has had their times, so did I, instead of looking back and asking why? I prefer looking forward and asking, why not?
Self control, quiet words and silence is far more powerful than the loudest shout or quarrel you can ever make. Remember, silence is the best way to argue.
Hence, promise me about thanking all the people who’ve walked into your life and made it fantastic and also thank all the others who’ve walked out of your life making wonderful.
Today, I stand here with my teeny-tiny bunch of monkeys whom I have chosen to be my family. My family members and also the ones whom I have chosen as family, complete me. My life is real good.
Could it be better? Absolutely...
Could it be worse? Without a doubt…
But right now… Life is good.
:-)
POOJA BHANGAY
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